i used to loathe the idea of having a partner who was spiritually more mature than me, but now, i actually like this idea, because it works, especially for me, for someone more mature to tell me what to do, and how i should do it, and to tell me i'm not alone, and he'll be there to support me when i'm trying to go back to God, coz i tend to run away a lot whenever i feel i'm too unworthy to face God, but he'll always encourage me, rebuke me, and tell me to go to God. so cool. yes.. so that's my skeleton in the closet. so thank you very much.