A really close friend of mine, or at least i think he's rather close told me that i'm a sarcastic person. One who likes to put others down somehow unconsicously or not. It could be jokingly or seriously. Not really serious, but somehow still hurts some people some time. and what he said was really true, and got me thinking. And now i don't even have the face to face them anymore, coz it's like i suddenly feel so ashamed of myself, like why am i so sarcastic?
And what really hit me was: he gave me a scenario of if i have kids in the future, even if my kids did really badly, will i encourage my kids by saying "oh, you did very well, and you'll definitely pass your exams." or will i comment on what my kids did, and discern if they really made an improvement or they were just plain lazy. I said, it depends on how much the kids improved, or whether the kids had improved or not.
He replied. "if it's him, he will always encourage, coz he'll find something good in it."
and now, come to think of it, it depends on if my kids did his best or not!
i have no way to answer that question, "why am i so sarcastic?" in my friend's eyes, i'm probably a bitch now.
:cry:
And what really hit me was: he gave me a scenario of if i have kids in the future, even if my kids did really badly, will i encourage my kids by saying "oh, you did very well, and you'll definitely pass your exams." or will i comment on what my kids did, and discern if they really made an improvement or they were just plain lazy. I said, it depends on how much the kids improved, or whether the kids had improved or not.
He replied. "if it's him, he will always encourage, coz he'll find something good in it."
and now, come to think of it, it depends on if my kids did his best or not!
i have no way to answer that question, "why am i so sarcastic?" in my friend's eyes, i'm probably a bitch now.
:cry:
5 Comments:
erm girl ah.....your line of thought got some problem okay...
why are u hard on labeling urself a bitch when u arent even one lah...
so what if u are sarcastic...that doesnt make u a bitch.....
all ur friend did was to correct rebuke and to encourage u to become a better person...whether he did it in a nice way is another matter of which i have noidea only u....
and if i follow ur line of thought...i wld conclude that u think im a bitch cos right now...alot of people are telling me whats worng with me what they dont like about me and what they wld like to see change and believe u me its alot...and so since i was like that last time before everybody started telling me...u wld think im a bitch...now do u??tts the million dollar question...haha... =)
p.s. i dont really care about what u think of that...so its okay to say tt u think i was...heh.... ;)
bitch
n.
1. A female canine animal, especially a dog.
2. A woman considered to be spiteful or overbearing.
3. A lewd woman.
4. A man considered to be weak or contemptible.
i got that from dictionary.com and i'm sure the defination of the word 'bitch' is the same elsewhere.
first, you're female...BUT are you a dog? i don't think so... to comfirm look at yourself in the mirror.
second, you're not spiteful in anyway. in fact, you're a very innocent child of God.
third, i know you well enough not to be lewd. and let me remind you.. that you are a child of God.. pleasing in His sight.
last, you're not weak! you are strong sister!
So conclusion.... you're not a bitch. don't ever call yourself that!
you also forgot to mention that she isnt a guy...haha...cos the word man doesnt refer to all human race cos why they used the word woman earlieroif they want to refer to all human race they wld have sai something like a man or woman....(*applying my law knowlegde...dont ask..haha)
oh no...dont tell me u are....gasp shock...fainted...hahahahha...sorry...its earlyin the morning and i just woke up..okayokaymabe not so earlyin themorning morelike 12 but hey i just woke up....
thanks steph for coming up with a definition! and thanks mich for comforting me! i'm fine now. and i just got lost in your second post. but i'm fine now. smile!!!
step by step. the Lord will lead you and lovingly finish your character. Whatever it is, it doesn't really matter anymore. Just give it up to God and ask Him to change you and free you from this feeling of self-condemnation.
"Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ"
Phillipians 1:6
God bless! take pictures!
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